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Your REAL ID

Discovering the Truth of Your Identity in Christ

By Tim Howe

You can love God, know the Bible, and even serve at church, yet still be held captive by lies you don’t realize you believe.

Your REAL ID will show you who God says you are, and out of that identity, the purpose He created you for. You’ll learn to replace the lies you’ve believed about yourself with the truth of what God says about you. Jesus said, “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free” (John 8:32).

Inside, you’ll find a Bible study built on the truth, chapter and verse, that empowered me to break free from shame, addiction, fear, anxiety, and toxic thinking. Often, the lies of the enemy sound a lot like your own thoughts. As you read, you’ll be empowered to take those thoughts captive and replace them with the truth of God’s Word.

For over twenty years as a believer, I lived in bondage to lies implanted in me as a child. Then, in May 2019, I had a radical encounter with God, and I learned that knowing the Bible isn’t enough: you have to believe that you ARE who HE says you are.

Throughout this journey, you’ll discover twenty-nine biblical truths about who you are in Christ and learn to see yourself the way God sees you. Truth you can build your life on.

Along the way, you’ll learn:

  • what God says to the feeling that nobody truly understands you or truly loves you
  • why your identity has never been based on what you do, and how to stop living to prove yourself
  • whether God still loves you when you keep failing, and the difference between guilt and shame
  • how the father you grew up with (or didn’t) shaped the picture of God you carry
  • why so many believers live far below what God has already provided for them

Whether you’re new to faith or you’ve been in church your whole life, this book was written for you.

You are wanted. Your life matters. With God, your future is better than you can possibly imagine.
It’s time to learn who you really are. Because you are who the Word says you are.

As a child of God: You ARE Loved, Guiltless, Chosen, Accepted, and Called!

Inside the Book

The book opens with my own story: the lies I believed, where they came from, and how the truth set me free. Then it does for you what God’s Word did for me. Twenty-one chapters, built the way the series was preached, one identity truth at a time, replacing one lie at a time.

  • Every chapter ends with Your Documentation, the key verses that prove that chapter’s truth. That’s your file.
  • Making It Yours reflection questions, plus a For Your Group block in every chapter and a Leader Guide included. This book runs beautifully as a small-group study.
  • A prayer to close every chapter, prayed in your own voice over your own life.
  • The book moves in three parts of seven chapters, with a built-in rest at each seventh chapter. We don’t change our identity by striving. We change it by resting in the finished work of Christ.

By the end, you’ll have filed twenty-nine REAL ID truths, statements like I am Loved by God as His Beloved! I am a New Creation in Christ! I am a Child of God! I am God’s Masterpiece! Each one documented, chapter and verse.

Already Have the Book? Go Deeper

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what is the good, pleasing, and perfect will of God. (Romans 12:2)

Leave your email and I’ll send you the first two going-deeper resources: your printable REAL ID File with all twenty-nine identity truths on one page, and the click-to-listen guide to the complete audio series, where you can click any chapter and listen to the original audio message behind it for free.

Don’t have the book yet? These resources are yours free either way.

And this is just the beginning. More going-deeper resources are on the way, including video content. This site is still in the early stages of its build-out, and we want to stay in touch as new features and benefits become available to you.

Preview of the REAL ID File — all twenty-nine truths on one page Preview of the Your REAL ID Audio Series click-to-listen guide

We’ll send you a link to your resources right away, plus occasional Your REAL ID resource updates.

About the Author

Tim Howe

Tim Howe and his wife, Meagan, are the founders of Elite Life Ministries, in Waukegan, Illinois. Their ministry grew out of a season of profound life change: years in which they experienced firsthand the healing, restoration, and wholeness that come from knowing who you are in Christ. Out of that season came a calling they now share with everyone they can reach: to know, show, and share the love of God.

Tim’s teaching centers on helping believers grow deeper in their faith and trust in the Lord, and on bringing hope and healing to the hurting and broken. Tim and Meagan also share a deep passion to see marriages and families healed and restored.

Tim and Meagan have been married since 2006 and have four children.

To invite Tim to teach or share at your church or event, email Tim@EliteLifeMinistries.org. Find more from Elite Life Ministries at EliteLifeMinistries.org.

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